Lately I’ve been so focused on my two bottom abs that I’ve been driving myself much harder than usual. One tendency I have, which can be extremely positive or negative, is that I can sometimes fall into a single minded focus that borders obsession. This mindset is great for accomplishing things because I can really get a lot done in a short period of time, but it can also be a downfall because I can sometimes go overboard and forget that nothing has to be done “at all costs.”
Even though I know better (as we all do), I sometimes forget that the human body has a limited ability to recuperate, burn fat and make changes. Whenever I forget these things I usually end up eating less than I should, working out harder and longer than I should and not taking enough breaks to allow my body to re-energize.
In other words, I become so focused on getting where I want to go (which is to have the full six-pack instead of just four abs), that my strategy goes out the window. Whenever this happens, I have to step back to get a fresh perspective on what I’m working towards and I really have to think about how I should approach the result I’m trying to attain.
This last week I was tired, my muscles were flat and I had four protein bars in one day – which I never eat because they’re really just a poor substitute for candy – because I was so hungry. After evaluating my approach over the last few weeks, it occurred to me that I had been consuming too few calories and working out too much.
Without realizing it, I found myself caught in the extreme pattern I always warn everyone not to fall into. Although it definitely wasn’t as bad as the last time, which I wrote about in chapter 2 of my book Weight Loss Secrets of Superstar, I was definitely headed for a disaster again.
To remedy the situation, I’ve upgraded my eating program, restructured my workouts, and I’ve made new plans. For starters, I’m going to take the next two weeks to neutralize my calorie deficit so my body gets a nice break. I’m not using this period as an excuse to eat whatever I want and lack discipline of course, because that would offset all my efforts. Instead, I’m going to eat enough food so that I burn all the calories I consume.
The other thing I’m doing for the next two weeks is toning down my workouts so I’m not pushing myself as hard as usual. That means I’ll be working out with weights five days a week at a moderate intensity and ditching the cardio so my body can get back into balance. This isn’t exactly what I want to do at this time because I’m so close to the last two abs, but I know from past experience that if I don’t make some changes now I’ll pay for it later.
The three most important lessons here are:
1) Be careful not to allow your desire to lose weight push you to extremes – with eating too little or working out excessively.
2) You need to evaluate your weight loss goals and your approach in attaining them at least monthly to ensure you’re on track.
3) You need to give your body a break from a calorie deficit periodically to keep your progress steady.